Sunday, 21 July 2013

the peer fear

             Most of the people have attempted at least one thing in their lives which they consider to be brave. But most of their weird and strange ideas have been confined either to their own selves or to an external keeper like a diary or some close relative. We get sentimental at the tail of our lives because we did not give sentiments much of the space they should have got in the youth. It is like reserving a lot of things.
            People have said that they fear failures. They try to work hard anonymously or in some dark room where no one can see them work. A failure is okay, but a hard worked failure becomes a laughing stock. And most of the people around us are the ones that acknowledge success instead of honest attempts to achieve success.
            There is a fear that we develop inside ourselves right from the moment we start working on something. It refers to all those subjects as the limits to what a failure can cause, reactions that your acquaintances and friends have to offer.  True, we can never be exactly sure about the outcome of an event, but jamming up your brain with the consequences of a particular result has nothing to do with the event as such.
            This fear of failure and being mocked at is a serious one. It might sound so 'girly' or may be 'a lifestyle issue', and really it should not be valued more than that. But the problem is that most of us will fall to it. In childhood, most of us have like to climb trees, but we give it up eventually for either the fear of falling or the comparison people started drawing to our ancestors.
           Everyone has people about whom they are concerned, with whom they look to share the good and the bad in their life. That is a great thing, but something must not be kept in the drawers simply because there were people outside who would have mocked if it had fallen.
             The worst that can happen in one's life is to buy a product which one once thought to manufacture and market for himself. Ideas that remain in mind don't pay to anyone.


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